tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post221613070645078309..comments2023-11-02T09:05:59.716+01:00Comments on Diary: Here's what happened.Candehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-88618240932736550092011-04-17T23:11:36.275+02:002011-04-17T23:11:36.275+02:00It sounds like a wonderful time to me. You got ou...It sounds like a wonderful time to me. You got out, socialized, flirted a bit, reached out to CW, and I absolutely love the feeling of a woman's hand at the nape of my neck scratching the skin under my scalp. I'm sure he did too.<br /><br />The BF's anger needs to be explained, by him, as it relates to your future. If he's jealous and ready to make changes to improve things and make you happier, than the anger can have a positive effect (affect?). If he's just jealous for pride, then it's just him ranting.<br /><br />I'm glad you had a good time... An oh, one more thought. You mentioned that there was less touching at the concert than at work, that's totally normal.<br /><br />At work there are built in boundaries and a hand on the back or a touch on the arm is dangerous or at least bold. At the concert, the same touch doesn't have a natural stopping point. A hand on the back becomes a hand around the waist, a touch on the cheek becomes a caress which becomes a kiss...<br /><br />There are different rules for each situation which makes it all more confusing....Advizor54https://www.blogger.com/profile/02818587592229617693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-68857557536901560012011-04-17T19:33:50.391+02:002011-04-17T19:33:50.391+02:00I can't see why you going out at night should ...I can't see why you going out at night should matter to bf at all, and you obviously have a lot to talk about. In the situation you're in I think you're doing the right thing; you're defining your own boundaries by letting your mind have a taste at alternative scenarios, perhaps more figuring out your feelings for bf than for co-worker. At least that's my interpretation. And I agree with ebony - having fun is always good, whatever comes of it and whatever your reasons.Johannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04627332662014931394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-25414001666140311992011-04-17T18:35:15.512+02:002011-04-17T18:35:15.512+02:00Sounds like you had a great time once you let your...Sounds like you had a great time once you let yourself go more. You should be yourself more often.Ebony Pantherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17788230571847312283noreply@blogger.com