tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post2251671918211426111..comments2023-11-02T09:05:59.716+01:00Comments on Diary: Dreams and reason(ing)Candehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-69229490129953119842011-09-17T08:12:52.833+02:002011-09-17T08:12:52.833+02:00a "doubt free life" is a bit of a pipe-d...a "doubt free life" is a bit of a pipe-dream, but you don't have any doubts that the BF is not going to change, you are certain of that. Instead of focusing doubt, focus on certainties...<br /><br />You are not fulfilled emotionally or sexually.<br />You are not reaching yoru goals as an artist with him<br />You don't see him as a long term partner.<br /><br />With these certainties in hand, other decisions can be made with more confidence. <br /><br />We just ant you to be happy, even if you have to go through a rough patch to get there.Advizor54https://www.blogger.com/profile/02818587592229617693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-5565393087659672332011-09-15T09:58:44.221+02:002011-09-15T09:58:44.221+02:00Sounds like you've made up your mind... I thin...Sounds like you've made up your mind... I think Mike is right, you may experience doubts ahead, and it's probably good to be prepared for that. <br /><br />From what you've told on here it sounds like the right decision... even if you have good times with bf as well I find it hard to picture you reaching that "doubt free" life with him... what I mean is that if you don't break up now, you'll keep thinking about whether to do it, and when to do it, forever. (On the other hand - which long relationship is completely free of doubts...?)<br /><br />As for the cock envy... well suffice it to say that you're not alone ;-)Johannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04627332662014931394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-25111203796196745102011-09-14T23:05:16.697+02:002011-09-14T23:05:16.697+02:00absolutely excellent advice, who knows whether the...absolutely excellent advice, who knows whether the doubts will convince me to stay once again. I am pretty convinced this time...Candehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-66598343585094681262011-09-14T22:59:18.449+02:002011-09-14T22:59:18.449+02:00I think it is wonderful that you have finally made...I think it is wonderful that you have finally made "the" decision. Keep your certainty of it in mind as time progresses and you begin to have 2nd (3rd? millionth?) thoughts about actually carrying out what you need to do.<br /><br />MikeMichaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05248696447725473929noreply@blogger.com