tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post3462214404784132459..comments2023-11-02T09:05:59.716+01:00Comments on Diary: catch 22Candehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-88622709144244842162011-02-13T22:20:41.166+01:002011-02-13T22:20:41.166+01:00James: that's not a bad idea... I'm bad en...James: that's not a bad idea... I'm bad enough at keeping track of my work and money let alone when I have sex. Doe it work?Candehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-54221677046033038462011-02-13T21:56:09.875+01:002011-02-13T21:56:09.875+01:00I'm feeling that Catch-22. That's a good w...I'm feeling that Catch-22. That's a good way to describe it. I use http://bedposted.com to keep track of things. It works really well.Jameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09131559996182646108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-72799972969904275252011-02-13T10:57:04.892+01:002011-02-13T10:57:04.892+01:00Spot on... yes... got to be physical ;) Excellent ...Spot on... yes... got to be physical ;) Excellent advice.Candehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-28603671463567577552011-02-13T10:26:35.782+01:002011-02-13T10:26:35.782+01:00It's a difficult line to balance. I've bee...It's a difficult line to balance. I've been in the opposite situation (yes, I know it may be hard to believe), where I didn't want sex, at all, and my husband was constantly trying, begging, touching... it made me nervous, it made me feel like I had to "perform". So that's definitely a risk.<br /><br />But I still say: Jump him. Grab him. Show him, in a physical way, that you want him. At night, or whenever you ususally had sex, when you used to have sex - this is not a time to be creative, just stick with what usually went down in the past. Don't expect anything to happen, but do give him opportunities to grab the opportunity. The first time after a dry spell might not be great, but it gets better.<br /><br />If you want him, that is...Johannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04627332662014931394noreply@blogger.com