tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post6450285908053760460..comments2023-11-02T09:05:59.716+01:00Comments on Diary: Tastes ChangeCandehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-35805033938688608872010-10-22T22:12:18.968+02:002010-10-22T22:12:18.968+02:00Not only is it not wrong to ask, it is necessary. ...Not only is it not wrong to ask, it is necessary. I try to ask this question from time to time, although I usually don't get much response other than "what you are doing is fine". I would like this question asked to me more often.<br /><br />Because, yes, tastes do change, or maybe things you've always wanted but never asked for come to mind and you think "why shouldn't I have that?"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-68791041354375497512010-10-21T02:58:51.701+02:002010-10-21T02:58:51.701+02:00My wife and I just had this conversation tonight. ...My wife and I just had this conversation tonight. It was a great conversation and we really talked for the first time in eons (40+ years). As much as I want her to sleep with another man she insists she doesn't and she won't. This discussion came around to talking about which positions work best for us, what with our age and parts that aren't as flexible as they were. I can only suggest that you communicate, communicate, communicate!!Married Bullhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08846970271641034221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-53298431016855194922010-10-20T04:53:34.501+02:002010-10-20T04:53:34.501+02:00what is surely wrong is to NOT tell your partner w...what is surely wrong is to NOT tell your partner what you want in bed, what your desires are, what you are curious about.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-84086611073557408082010-10-19T17:22:49.128+02:002010-10-19T17:22:49.128+02:00Dear god... It's your partner. Your with him/h...Dear god... It's your partner. Your with him/her for years. If you can't ask him, there's definitely something wrong.<br /><br />By the way, you don't have to talk about it. You may tell him that he can simply do to you what ever he wants. That would at least be an interesting night. Don't you think?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-38585596851554376692010-10-19T17:18:24.145+02:002010-10-19T17:18:24.145+02:00I don't think it's wrong, I think it's...I don't think it's wrong, I think it's critical to ask. I think back to the first few years of being married to now and "the list" has shifted back and forth several times, not always for the better, but it has certainly moved around. <br /><br />I think the challenge it to get to a level of honesty where we are past the "Oh, it's fine" stage where we discount our own unhappiness in hopes of keeping the other person happy.<br /><br />So go ahead and ask, without judging the answer, and you might be pleasantly surprised.Advizor54https://www.blogger.com/profile/02818587592229617693noreply@blogger.com