tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post8273613174811952672..comments2023-11-02T09:05:59.716+01:00Comments on Diary: I'm ALIVE.... AAALLLLLALAAAAIIIIIIIIVVVECandehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-71600796413197877982011-02-27T00:56:30.959+01:002011-02-27T00:56:30.959+01:00Coworker probably knows exactly what he's doin...Coworker probably knows exactly what he's doing, but that doesn't mean that he wants it to go any further. Sometimes getting in the hunt, even if it's just for fun, is thrilling enough. Maybe he likes things just the way they are, fun, flirty, a little dangerous, but without any real danger. If that is where he's at, it means that he trusts you, that he likes you, and that teasing you feels safe. Pushing it more might make him back off completely. So I'd say just let it ride. <br /><br />As for BF, you've been together for a long time and it's easy to get into ruts that you don't even see. While I'm not a big fan of the "flirt with others to make him jealous" train of thought, I do think that letting him see that you are taking care of your needs and your development demonstrate that you aren't waiting for him to make you happy. He needs to realize how wonderful you are, so all you can do is stay strong and beautiful, just like you are.<br /><br />And as for work? Power through, get the paycheck, and meet all the cute dads you can for tutoring gigs. :-)Advizor54https://www.blogger.com/profile/02818587592229617693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-90865887260013453682011-02-26T20:15:31.005+01:002011-02-26T20:15:31.005+01:00Glad to see you're back! I've been married...Glad to see you're back! I've been married so long that I'm pretty much past trying to change the way my husband looks at me, or the way he acts. I do think I tried for a while, then I just sort of decided that his ways were completely acceptable to me, but I identified certain parts and pieces that were missing and that I didn't want to live without. Not only sex, mind you :) (but that too). I decided to look elsewhere for those, on my own, and things are working out pretty well now, both my life with him and the parts and pieces I take care of without him. I do think you have to think it over at some point and make sure your life is moving in the direction you want it to move. Congratulations on your new jobs, sounds great!Johannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04627332662014931394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-58764076289012980432011-02-26T19:30:51.619+01:002011-02-26T19:30:51.619+01:00I'm with the very sexy Frenchy. I think BF'...I'm with the very sexy Frenchy. I think BF's taken you for granted for some time now. As for co-worker, it's nice to have the what-if factor play out sometimes. Hopefully, the jobs you are doing are giving you some satisfaction.Ebony Pantherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17788230571847312283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-66059198672783906162011-02-26T17:11:30.347+01:002011-02-26T17:11:30.347+01:00I think he pretty much takes you for granted, you ...I think he pretty much takes you for granted, you should find a way to make him feel you're not. Maybe tell him that some guy was trying to flirt with you at work, or in a café, and that you liked it, whatever, and see his reaction.Amazon Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17360197390337341982noreply@blogger.com