tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post8973227512423556516..comments2023-11-02T09:05:59.716+01:00Comments on Diary: fucking fuck of a fuckCandehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-6149773925649925812013-07-23T02:52:29.451+02:002013-07-23T02:52:29.451+02:00I've been reading your blog for awhile and thi...I've been reading your blog for awhile and this comment probably won't make me popular but the truth is, you haven't been honest with him. You're secretly in love with another man that has led to a RL pseudo relationship. Yes, I get there's a myriad of other issues but... that's kind of the bottom line. We take for granted that our significant others don't see or feel this on a subconscious level (that we're hiding it so well) but they do. Who told him is kind of irrelevant, there's a much bigger elephant in the room. I speak from experience in that if you don't make a clean break in some way, you'll forever stay in an unsatisfactory gray area with bf. You owe it to yourself to have the kind of love in your life that you deserve.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-72568297230649764732013-07-23T00:31:08.937+02:002013-07-23T00:31:08.937+02:00Thanks guys.
I must be getting the word confront...Thanks guys. <br /><br />I must be getting the word confront confused with my second language. I just mean talk to him about it. <br /><br />I'm not going to firebomb him depending on what he says of course, but it's very unlikely he'll admit to anything much. <br /><br />Rachel you have a good point. I really don't know much about this whole thing so yes he could be making wild guesses. I did have the feeling he may be taking wild guesses. When I asked him who told him two or three times, he answered differently each time. The first time he said that he just knew these things, he could pick up on them. The second he said that he had "spies" around, and the third time he just said that he'd picked up on comments someone else had said in another setting.<br /><br />So it's hard to say, but the only way to find out is to talk to Mr.XXX <br /><br />It's true that bf is reacting to our situation. He's having a very hard time accepting the separation thing he told me so himself with our argument this morning. Though I'm hoping it's clear to him and readers that I'm not breaking up with him, just getting my own space for now, then we'll see.<br /><br />Candehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01678003991987294180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-78904967180173523482013-07-23T00:06:50.502+02:002013-07-23T00:06:50.502+02:00I'm not one to knock a good firebombing. But g...I'm not one to knock a good firebombing. But get the right target. Unless I'm missing something, you really don't know who violated your trust yet. And maybe no one did. Someone may have seen you w XXX. BF may be making a wild ass guess based on something he heard or someone said. I guess to me the bigger issue is that BF feels free to react that way just because you're seeking support from a friend. He didn't accuse you of sleeping w him - he accused you of 'talking' w him? I don't know. Maybe I'm out of line and I apologize in advance. I am probably sensitive because I had this conversation over lunch today; came at me out of the blue. BF probably over-reacted too because its becoming more real to him that its over.rachel-xxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12878589225548770591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-20210416819310221872013-07-22T22:39:45.207+02:002013-07-22T22:39:45.207+02:00I hate people in general and this just confirms th...I hate people in general and this just confirms the fact that most of them are worthless. I guess I'm really sensitive to the confidentiality idea since we live and breath on trusting each other with lots of information.<br /><br />I think "confront" is the wrong word as well, i think the word you are looking for is "firebomb".Advizor54https://www.blogger.com/profile/02818587592229617693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4439200263955642089.post-43858233235657737132013-07-22T19:30:17.405+02:002013-07-22T19:30:17.405+02:00Maybe "confront" is the wrong word, but ...Maybe "confront" is the wrong word, but you should definitely ask him if he knows how your private conversation could have gotten back to the bf.<br /><br />That's really miserable. I'm sorry. :-(Maxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02335669036476740866noreply@blogger.com