I can't get an HNT up this week unless I manage to get some time on my own by midnight tonight... which is a minor possibility... in the meantime I'll tell this story.
So I was walking home from work the other evening, after dark, and I walk past a cute young guy, beard and glasses type, he was wearing a coppola hat, very trendy. He looks me straight in the face and says "hey" in English... otherwise it would be "ey". I take a double take and say "Ciao" quietly a bit surprised. I thought he was trying to pick me up. I was happily flattered until he planted himself on the sidewalk and said "how are you?" in Italian.
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Yeah I knew the guy but hadn't recognized him. He graduated with Co-worker boy and has his own business now. Very similar to the place I work at, but smaller scale. I've seen him around various times at openings and art shows. It's a small town and so if there's an opening or a show everyone in the field goes.
We've been introduced and I've even been over to his business to spend a bit of time and to say hi.
He is hot, very attractive, yes. Especially before the full on beard. I'm not much for bearded guys usually. I used to stare at him at these events, kinda hoping he'd pay more attention to me, then I found out he's married/or has a partner and just recently had a kid. Every time I see him I flirt a little, but he rarely pays much attention as far as I could tell.
It really surprised me the other evening though. I just didn't know what to say. He wanted to make small talk, and asked me where I was going at that hour. I told him that I was on my way home, that I had worked all afternoon and that I was tired. He had two shopping bags full of food and beer, he was heading back to his "office" for a bit of a party with some friends. I only realized when I got home that he was probably contemplating inviting me. When I told him I was tired he probably decided against it.
Annoying thing is that BF was eating at a friend's house that evening and it would have been perfect. Oh well...
Sometimes we miss the most obvious invitations.... But there is always another art opening or gallery event, maybe you can be the one to invite him over....
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