So here's a few.
Co-worker is back to flirting. I thought he was done with that scene but I guess he wasn't quite. He started texting me the other day with a series of smileys. I answered with one back and we exchanged about 4 each. There was a heart on another text and the touching at work started up again. I even got a hug yesterday. I play along a little, but not giving in entirely as it can't go anywhere, I'd rather it not go anywhere.
Bf has separated our bank account, took his portion of cash and separated the bills. I'm paying my own rent and everything as of the beginning of November, but he hasn't moved out. He has given me more closet space and helped cleaned stuff out a little, but I'm afraid to ask him to start living the the other apt. I think he plans on staying until I find something but I have no idea how long that will take and would rather he start living there part time at least. I just need to find the courage to break it to him.
I did something moderately bad. I went through the bf's computer and phone the other day. He erases his text messages on a regular basis so there's really not a lot there. His computer on the other hand was more telling. He had a chat program in the trash, it's a French chat site. Not sure why there was some sort of download for it. His browser history was full of porn which didn't surprise me.
I kinda giggled as the porn was mostly vintage 70's stuff. Lots of bush. The other stuff was searches for young anal stuff. No surprise there. I'm not sure why but I am almost surprised there wasn't any gay curious stuff. I've always suspected a little. There was only one page about tranny sex and I'm pretty sure it was a mistake. I think he'd just been going through all the popular pages of a porn site as there was a whole list of pages from the same site on the history. I think he tries looking stuff up in English but isn't too good at it since he doesn't speak English.
If he went through my computer he probably wouldn't find a whole lot, though he'd find blogger, I'm not sure he'd be able to figure out it was me writing. I have a locked folder with pictures of myself and a few things from rob. And a couple other secrets. He wouldn't be able to get into that though.
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I find it interesting that you call going through your boyfriends laptop "moderately bad" what would be really bad? What would be just kind of bad? I think about what people would find on my laptop a lot because my kids use it to watch movies and occasionally play games. I have to keep it polished clean. All of my pictures are on Google Docs or flash drives tucked away at my office at work. I realized the other day I had some very incriminating addresses on my favorites list so I cleaned those out as well.
Did finding his history of porn turn you on? Did it inform you of anything new?Besides the tranny page, does he have favorites that surprised you?
Splitting up your bank accounts is a big step. I remember when my brother was dating his future wife they got a joint checking account. At that point I realized it was serious. As a 14-year-old who really liked hanging out with his brother I was mad at her, but it has worked out okay, after 30 years of marriage IA decided I like having her around. :-)
I hope the finances were For you as a single. How is the apartment hunt going?
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