Admittedly though he hasn't emailed since.
And the night while writing my last post he emailed me a few times.
In one of the emails I said that I enjoyed talking but that I was full of reservations. So he knows my feelings. He also knows I'm not leaving the bf because he asked me directly.
We will see how things proceed. There was also a comment from him about not meeting up for another year. He said "we didn't meet for coffee in over a year so what's another one before we talk again. I doubt he expects much really. But I could very well be wrong.
If I were to base my prediction on what I knew of his character before I met him I'd have said he'd be a jerk and start being creepy stalkerish, but after meeting him I don't see that happening.
He's a good guy, sweet even.
we will see.