I do think that this problem might be an issue for some women too. I have felt like I've come close to being at this point. My advice? Moderation. Get away from porn for a (long) while until you can get yourself off with your hands and imagination, stay there for a while and then bring porn back in gradually and only occasionally. Switch things up. Don't always get off in the same ways, especially not always with visual stimuli.
Oh and before you go off the visuals... get over to HNT on Thursday!