It's funny how our minds rationalise things.
I can justify cheating on bf if it's something that I've been wanting to do for a long time, like to fuck Rob. I can rationalise cheating on bf if it's a threesome because it's something that I don't want to miss out on in my lifetime.
But I can't rationalise just having random sex with a good looking 22 yr old.
Why can't I rationalise that? It's just as bad as the others....
What's keeping me from doing it? I have the opportunity... I can organise it relatively easily.
My body wants to, but my mind says that I'd be "cheating". My rationalisation isn't rational, is it? I think I'll have smoke coming out of my ears in a few minutes. My mind is going into overload trying to figure this out.
Maybe I should give in to all temptation.
Two people have mentioned this quote in two days:
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it - Oscar Wilde
All I can say here is that it is absolutely true, then again this came from a man who died destitute at the age of 46, and was imprisoned for sodomy and gross indecency.
At the time, gay relations were illegal and he gave into temptation only to be caught and sent to jail.