Thursday, May 10, 2012

"Want to try something new?"

He asked me if I wanted to try something new. I nodded eagerly not exactly knowing what to expect. He said that he was going to go down on me. It was something he mentioned wanting to do before I even left Italy. He had also said that I wouldn’t be able to handle it.
He looked me in the eyes and said “but you have to keep your eyes on me, you have to watch me”.
He went down kissing my thighs on his way. He didn’t touch me once with his hands. He skillfully eased his tongue between my lips, lapping slowly at my clit. His chin came to rest at the opening of my slippery hole and he worked.
He never once took his eyes off mine. I don’t think I’ll ever forget that look, those eyes.
I must have been close to orgasm because he shook his finger at me, I couldn’t understand.  I held off though. Things get blurry after that. I must have been in quite the state. I know that he slipped a finger into me and I must have had an orgasm cause I remember him still between my legs when I closed my knees on his neck and I even rolled, dragging him with me. I think I even might have hurt him or come close to it. It was comical now that I think back, but then and there I barely noticed what was going on.

Then I was laying on my back and he on his side, our legs intertwined and his cock deep inside me and he was watching me. I came hard again, this time one of my more typical orgasms. It was so strong it brought me close to tears. He brought his hand to my throat as I came. First just a caress, but then a slightly stronger grip. I’ve never felt it before but I enjoyed the thrill of it. He would get this gleam in his eyes when he did that.

April 24th

This is something I wrote just after we left the hotel. I was at the train station waiting for my train back to London, he was driving back home.


Advizor54 said...

OK, that does it, you are now, officially, the hottest blogger I know. :-)

What a great memory....

miss rica said...

LOVE your blog. You're very descriptive ;) I can definitely relate.. well im sure we all can.

I noticed you said the throat thing.. One of my girl friends said her boyfriend likes to choke her during sex. I thought this was so weird and i would not want it to happen to me. idky but i just wouldn.t She said she loved it though. She got turned on by it the harder he pushed down on her neck. Is this common these days? my first reaction was he was trying to dominate her. am i just overthinking this? lol what are your thoughts?

xox rica

Cande said...

Miss Rica:

Thanks for the compliment!! I'm glad you enjoy reading.

As for your friend and the throat thing, I have to say you have to try it before you can judge. I personally wasn't totally gung-ho to try getting choked during sex. And don't get me wrong, Rob didn't choke me or even come close to it. But the action of having a hand on your throat during an orgasm is definitely a turn on for me.

I have always liked having my throat touched in general, so I guess that's part of the reason. But the possibility of danger also does something to heighten an orgasm. I trust Rob 110% and therefore have no issues leaving him to touch me the way he wants. There is no fear that he's going to hurt me whatsoever.

There is however definitely a hint of submission in the act and I am one who does tend towards submission rather than domination.
Maybe your friend (knowingly or not) is somewhat sumbissive?

I'm not sure how common it is, but I do think that especially in Dom/sub relationships it's quite frequent. As for "normal" sexual relationships, I don't really know.